How do you want to feel during O/our session?

As a Professional Dominatrix, I truly adore the freedom, creativity and adaptability I experience while curating individualized sessions with and for My submissives. I’ve recently added a new question to My booking form that I hope will add to the enjoyment of each unique scene.

How do you want to feel during O/our session?

The responses I’ve received have been varied, endless and eye opening.

“safe, accepted, validated, loved, used, humiliated, overpowered, like I’m taking a break from responsibility, excited, scared, stretched, punished, small, helpless, forced, insignificant, in awe of Your power, like we’re having silly fun,  under the control of a strict Mistress……”

Ticking off the interest box on My session request form for bondage, strap on or foot worship, for example, gives Me an idea of the activities you enjoy (and more importantly what I should wear). However, the combination of the interests selected and answering this newly added question, completely helps Me adjust My mindset and allows Me to better prepare and savour you fully.

The use of bondage in a scene can make My submissive feel helpless, frightened and vulnerable. For example, visualize being hogtied with rope laying face down on My cage or floor. Both ends being accessible for use and violation. Back, bottom and soles of your feet exposed for punishment. No chance of escape. Envision laying on your back on My bondage bed. Arms spread above your head. Legs spread wide. Wrists and ankles secured tightly. Everything that you value exposed for tease and torture. On the other hand, bondage in a scene can make you feel still, safe and secure. Imagine taking a nap in My body bag while I’m stroking your hooded head, being fully encased in a nylon sack while you lay on My lap or sleep overnight locked in My cage. It’s not surprising that several of My clients with autism or ADHD request this kind of scene as it gives them the nervous system calming effect they seek, similar to that of a weighted blanket. A handcuff fetishist may see Me simply because they enjoy the look, smell, feel and sound of My police grade cuffs closing around their wrists, thumbs, toes and ankles. This too can be communicated by telling Me how you wish to feel in session.

When it comes to pegging, I can make gentle love to you with My strap on. I can pound you with it, use you with it, gag you with it, tease you with it, or rape you with it. A submissive may feel cared for, aroused, overpowered or humiliated by this act. A non-submissive client may just want the physical pleasure that comes from prostate stimulation. There truly is no right or wrong way to enjoy My cock.

Foot worship has always been the way to My heart! Cleaning My sweaty feet with your tongue at the end of the day may be degrading or humbling. Sucking My toes while I’m having a glass of wine on the sofa with My lover may make you feel humiliated, excited, or inadequate. Having My feet on your face or chest while I tower over you may make you feel small, crushed and insignificant (I’m incredibly tall and substantial when standing on top of you). Kneeling at My feet and kissing them gently may lead to feelings of peace, calm, servitude, respect, awe and surrender.

Every BDSM scene requires an exchange: an exchange of energy, an exchange of power and most importantly an exchange of communication. I continuously tweak My session request form so that our communication can be as thorough, expansive and concise as possible. I hope this newly added question will provide an opportunity for My submissives to communicate the experience they are looking for by telling Me how they want to feel during O/our session!

 

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