Submission is given, not taken. It can be inspired, encouraged, even coerced, but must be offered freely. I strongly believe that both the Dominant and submissive are responsible for participating in a session. That is why it’s called an exchange. Both individuals need to be present, prepared and in tune with each other. Domination is not something I do to you, or for you. It is a dance that I want to explore and perfect together. This dance can be euphoric and satisfying. I am writing this blog with the submissive in mind. I know these tips will not apply to everyone who enjoys BDSM play and that’s where number 4 comes in.
Here are my top 5 suggestions for experiencing subspace in a BDSM power play exchange and getting the most out a scene with your Dominant:
- Develop Trust
- Surrender
- Let your Dominant be your Guide
- Communicate
- Give Feedback